Thursday, March 11, 2021

Single in the City: When your date is handsome AND can COOK!! (Warning: Sex Talk Ahead)






I'm always amazed at the amount of attention that I get from men.  My DM's and private messages stay flooded with dudes looking for some extra curricular activities.  And depending on how I feel and how they look, I'll sometimes entertain them.  I tend to stay away from guys that I grew up with although I get messaged from them the most.  I've entertained a few guys that sparked my curiosity in the past, and soon learn that sometimes it's best for y'all to just stay.....well..... in my past!

I LOVE that I can be authentically sexually me and no one knows that I have an interesting sex life.

Sorry, Just being honest.....

BUT when you meet a guy out in public and he's sexy, cute, funny, articulate, and VERY friendly, it's HARD to keep these panties up 😍

So, I met this guy whom I'll call "Al" at work.  He came into the job just casually looking for glasses and we hit it off IMMEDIATELY.  He was every shallow thing that I like in a guy.  Cute, funny, sexy, nice body, and very friendly.  When he finally found a frame that he liked, I took his prescription and measurements, then filled it to the tune of $342.00 (He got a lil money too).

My flirt game hand is strong so I was pretty sure he was going to ask for the digits and (He DID).  We talked on the phone a few days before we decided to meet up for dinner.  He's an only child to a Pastor and a Stay at home mom (Married for 50 years) which gives him an element of intrigue to me.  But from experience with the children of Pastors, I already knew that he was probably going to be GREAT in Bed. 

Church men are the BIGGEST Freaks.

We decided to have dinner at his place, and I was immediately impressed with the Décor of his home. Although his home is small, it's décor was elegant, clean, fresh flowers and glade plug-ins all over.  I arrived at his home about 6pm that evening and the aroma of Steak was filling the air.  He had purchased 2 bottles of my favorite wines and also bough a pack of cigarettes to feed my bad dirty habits. Before I arrived I called and asked if he needed me to bring anything, and he quickly replied....Just bring yourself, I got this!!! YES GAWD

I've gotten so used to wanting to help out that it's foreign when a guy says...Don't bring nothing I GOT IT. 

So here we are eating steak, French fries, salad, and Texas toast.  Everything was AMAZING. We watched Judas and the Black Messiah, listened to old school Motown.....everything flowed so effortlessly.  It didn't take no time before we were making out, and I debated whether it was wise to have sex because he was ALL OVER ME.  

I respectfully declined to Fuck on the first date, but I went back the next day, and.....

I think I left my panties under his bed!!

Single in the City: When your date is handsome AND can COOK!! (Warning: Sex Talk Ahead)

I'm always amazed at the amount of attention that I get from men.  My DM's and private messages stay flooded with dudes looking for ...